Change begins with Desire
Without desire we take no action and we don’t move forward with change. The Catch 22 is that much of our life our desire has been whittled away. We have been taught that wanting something for our self is selfish. We have been taught to think of and please others. All through childhood there was a paradigm that what we wanted had to come in a container of first considering if mom, dad, teacher, god, or sibling would allow it. Then we allowed our self to feel the desire first. By the time we are adults we have almost lost the ability to desire something for our self.