Self Judgment is the most common type of abuse. It’s self abuse. No one is more critical of you than the voice in your head. If anyone else talked to you the way the Judge in your mind spoke to you, you would fight back, or walk away from them. We […]
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Self Judgment
Published by April 7th, 2008 in Happiness, Self Awareness, The mind, Podcasts and Self Mastery. 0 CommentsFinding Your Self
Published by August 20th, 2007 in Emotions, Happiness, Self Awareness, The mind, Podcasts and Self Mastery. 0 CommentsFinding your Self or figuring out who you are is one of those eternal questions. We often struggle with it as teenagers, then again in our thirties, or during a mid life crisis. The struggle to know thy Self is as old as spiritual traditions that attempted to answer the question.
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Don’t Take Anything Personally
Published by February 23rd, 2007 in Happiness, Self Awareness, Emotional Reactions, The mind, Podcasts, Four Agreements and Impeccabililty. 0 CommentsHow to Not Take Things Personally
In the book, The Four Agreements, Miguel Ruiz outlines a code of conduct for creating love and happiness in your life. One of his Four Agreements is “Don’t Take Anything Personally. In this podcast I describe some of the hidden assumptions that cause us to take things personally. […]
The Ego Mind and Consciousness
Published by January 28th, 2007 in Happiness, Truth, Self Awareness, The mind, Podcasts, Four Agreements and Core Beliefs. 0 CommentsIn a Four Agreements workshop I shared a model for understanding consciousness and the ego mind. I recorded the workshop and part of it makes up this mp3 audio podcast. Understanding the ego mind and understanding consciousness means becoming aware of the way our mind dreams. The ego mind has more than just thoughts and […]
Fear of Love and Happiness
Published by December 1st, 2006 in Emotions, Happiness, Self Awareness, Emotional Reactions, The mind, Podcasts, Core Beliefs and Fear. 2 CommentsIt might be hard to believe that we fear love and happiness, but it is a real dynamic that happens in the mind. It is easier to understand if we consider the mind to be a living being with many different aspects. If we attempt to change our beliefs and behavior, then we are making […]
Fear and Overcoming Fear
Published by November 15th, 2006 in Emotions, Happiness, Self Awareness, Emotional Reactions, The mind, Podcasts, Core Beliefs and Fear. ClosedOvercome fear by gaining mastery over your core beliefs.
Fear is that emotional force that drives us in a direction away from joy, happiness, and love. Fear can paralyze us to the point that we feel helpless and suffocated. Often fear appears irrational, but it only looks this way at the surface. When you scrutinize the stories […]
Identify and Change Core Beliefs
Published by October 31st, 2006 in Happiness, Self Awareness, Emotional Reactions, Relationships, The mind, Podcasts and Core Beliefs. 1 CommentWhat are core beliefs and how do you identify them? That’s what many people are realizing they need to do to change their emotional reactions. The problem is where do you look to find core beliefs? They are in the mind but can be hard to pin down, particularly when it is […]
Love Relationships Part 1
Published by September 30th, 2006 in Emotions, Happiness, Self Awareness, Relationships, The mind, Podcasts, Relationship Advice and Love Relationships. 0 CommentsUnderstanding Desire and Yearning in Relationships
Desires for a relationship come from deep within us. They aren’t desires for a specific person so much as a need for expression and experience of connection and feeling that we can have with another person. Those desires include the emotion of love, physical affection, and sexual satisfaction. It is […]
Can Money Buy Happiness
Published by September 20th, 2006 in Emotions, Happiness, Emotional Reactions, The mind and Core Beliefs. 0 CommentsMoney can buy comforts and our comforts can help keep the mind distracted from fears that eat away at our happiness.
Money doesn’t buy happiness. Happiness is an emotional state. From one point of view inanimate objects can’t create emotions within us. The things money can buy does allow us to occupy our mind with things that we love. […]
Power Control Fear and Freedom
Published by September 20th, 2006 in Emotions, Happiness, Self Awareness, The mind, Personal Power and Fear. 0 CommentsInspiried by Tim Boucher’s blog article on fear and power and way too much time in front of the computer screen.
I’ve observed that many people who seek power do so out of self created fear. Their mind drives scenarios of misfortune. Without awareness, they invest belief in their imagined stories and create fear. Their imagined […]
Feeling Not Good Enough - Beliefs
Published by August 11th, 2006 in Emotions, Happiness, Self Awareness, Emotional Reactions, The mind, Podcasts and Core Beliefs. 2 CommentsI wrote an article about feeling not good enough. It relates to issues of insecurity. A big component of feeling insecure is the image of perfection that we create in our mind. When the voice in our head compares us to that image of perfection it concludes that we are not good […]
Empowerment Programs and Claims to Empower People
Published by August 8th, 2006 in Happiness, Self Awareness, The mind and Personal Power. 1 CommentThere are many programs and organizations that describe what they do as empowering people. Empowerment of people might even be in their mission statement. This is common language among personal development and personal growth organizations. The idea is appealing, and the organizations probably do good work. However be aware that there is a hidden sabotaging message […]
Judge and Victim Stories in the Mind
Published by July 28th, 2006 in Happiness, Emotional Reactions, Questions for Gary and The mind. 0 CommentsHi Gary,
After doing the first couple exercises that you gave us I begin to see the whole (or part of) judge-victim story. Man, how many judges and victims are there? It is a bit overwhelming sometimes. So, my question is; is it ‘normal’ to feel a bit powerless, to think that there are just too […]
Stop Thinking about Thinking
Published by July 23rd, 2006 in Happiness, Self Awareness and The mind. 0 CommentsI happened upon a website called Pop Occulture. It is a blog by Tim Boucher. I liked the article he wrote on overcoming thought addiction. That’s when your mind won’t stop making commentary. And when your mind becomes aware of what it is doing it makes comments about all the comments it […]
