What should I do?
When you ask this question to someone else,,, you are opening the door to giving away your personal power and creating a victim mindset. This is a dangerous question to ask. At the same time guidance can be helpful.
In the early stages of our personal development we ask many questions. In the [...]
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Suggestions for Success
To help you get more out of the Self Mastery program here’s a suggestion:
1. Don’t go for Perfection
This may sound strange but the assignments I give aren’t always things you can accomplish, at least not right away.
Some people think that session 4 is the hardest. They just agree with people or disagree [...]
Malcolm Gladwell doesn’t take the commonly accepted beliefs others have. He looks deeper into understanding the Why’s and How’s of things at a deeper level. Success isn’t just a matter of hard work, or talent, or both. There are a lot of assumptions about success, and in his book Outliers, Gladwell works to dispel many [...]
News Years Resolution
Most New Year’s Resolutions fail. After a few months a person is back at their old habits and routines. One reason well intended resolutions fail is because we are already overloaded. Our mind is already full of things to think about, our daily schedule is full, and our energy spent on existing routines. [...]
Self Judgment for Not Breaking the Pattern of Self Judgment
David had a relationship break up about 5 years ago. In the aftermath he felt miserable. The voices in his head were kicking in with a lot of harsh self judgments, at least harsher than usual. It wasn’t an entirely new dynamic, but the amplified [...]