“I should be practicing more than I am.” One of the most common sabotaging thoughts a person has is, “I should be doing more than I am.” It can sound like a statement of fact, but it is really a judgmental self-critical thought. And a debilitating one at that. The result is an emotional shot […]
Why we don’t forgive, and what we can do to overcome that resistance and get to acceptance. Gary breaks down the obstacles and associations we make in our minds that stand in the way of forgiveness. Then he shows how they are false so you can more easily move past them.
The reasons we don’t forgive can be overcome. The more we are aware of these reasons we can see that their logic is faulty and they will fall apart with applied awareness.
One aspect of the Ego is the Archetype character of the Victim. It is part of our belief system clinging to fear and beliefs that we are “not good enough.” We may want to change these victim beliefs, but they don’t necessarily want to go.
The Ego has different facets that can morph and change moment to moment. One of the most prominent is the victim aspect of our belief system. The Victim is comprised of all the beliefs in a false identity, or false self image, of ways that we are unworthy. Even though these are painful aspects of our mind, and we want to get rid of them, they still may not go easily.
How many times in our process have we had the thought, “I should be further along than I am.” Really? To that comment I sometimes like to ask two questions, One: “In terms of percentage, how far along should you be?” Two: “In terms of percentage, how far along are you?” The assessment without those […]
What should I do? When you ask this question to someone else,,, you are opening the door to giving away your personal power and creating a victim mindset. This is a dangerous question to ask. At the same time guidance can be helpful. In the early stages of our personal development we ask many questions. […]