Archive for the 'Fear' Category

Definition of Fear

Some people say FEAR is False Evidence Appearing Real. That’s a nice acronym.   It’s catchy.   It’s also not true. Calling it False Evidence is saying that fear is an illusion or a lie.  Lies are made of words.  Fear is an emotion. We can create fear as a reaction to believing illusions, lies, or false [...]

Overcoming Fear of Losing Money

Fear of Losing Money As you learn to live a happier life one of the things that will change is the quality of communication.  Probably one of the most fearfully corrupt areas of communication is sales and marketing.  I know this because I used to work in sales.  Once you learn to overcome this fear [...]

Understanding Happiness

A woman was doing some research on Happiness for a school project and had a few questions for me. I typed up the answers to her questions on happiness and thought I would post them here. What is your definition of happiness? Happiness is a state of emotion. Happiness can be experienced in many different [...]

What Should I do After Graduation?

Ask Gary I would really appreciate your help with a question. I’m graduating from high school this year and trying to figure out what I should do. When reading about your background, I noticed that you have a degree in Mechanical Engineering. I have been accepted to a University for that very program. I’m going [...]

Understanding a Liar

How to deal with a Liar The most important aspect to master when dealing with a liar is your emotional reactions. You can’t always change the behavior of a liar, but you can change how you feel and react to them. Once you learn to change your emotions about a situation you begin to see [...]