Author Archive for Gerard van Warmerdam

What Should I Do

What should I do?
When you ask this question to someone else,,, you are opening the door to giving away your personal power and creating a victim mindset.   This is a dangerous question to ask.  At the same time guidance can be helpful.
In the early stages of our personal development we ask many questions.  In the [...]

Suggestions for Success with the Self Mastery Program

Suggestions for Success
To help you get more out of the Self Mastery program here’s a suggestion:
1.    Don’t go for Perfection
This may sound strange but the assignments I give aren’t always things you can accomplish, at least not right away.
Some people think that session 4 is the hardest.  They just agree with people or disagree [...]

Growth from Failure and Imagination by J. K. Rowling

Graduation speech by J. K. Rowling at Harvard Commencement

J.K. Rowling Speaks at Harvard Commencement from Harvard Magazine on Vimeo.
Because of her experience she has an extraordinary broad range of perspectives.  And with the capacity for so many perspectives she is wise.
 

Dealing With Grief

Hi Gary-
I find your insights incredibly rewarding and helpful.  I have been looking at your website (and bless you for making so much free btw), and one thing I see missing is anything about dealing with grief.  I have recently lost my boyfriend to an accident–and I have been having incredible metaphysical experiences, which I [...]

Thank You

How to thank me,
Many people write to me and thank me for how I have helped them.   Some are so grateful that they are at a loss, and ask how.   I will tell you how I want to be thanked.
Live a happy life with love, gratitude, and respect.  Love your self,,, and love others. [...]